Things Middle School Students Wish We Knew –

Reflection of my Classroom. I can really connect to some of these statements

Courtesy of via @TechySpEdMath :

1. I was not trying to get attention by falling off the chair. I am approximately infinity inches bigger than I was yesterday and I just lost track of how to balance. I felt like an idiot so I made falling into a joke. Crying was the other choice. And I’d rather cut off my arm than cry in school.

2. I did that homework. I am almost positive I did it. Getting it from done to folder to backpack to school to you is like seven extra homeworks. That is too many. It’s also possible I forgot to do the homework. I honestly have no idea where my planner is. Or maybe the homework was completely confusing and if I asked for help people might think I am stupid now when that used to be my best subject.

3. That time I called you Mom was the most humiliating moment of my life. It’s one thing in second grade but middle school? Ugh. How does this stuff still happen to me?

4. When you force us to get up—do stuff, act it out, test our ideas—it wakes us up and makes the lesson so much more fun and easy to remember.

5. Sometimes I just can’t focus. I’m buzzy, jumpy, pumped with electricity. Somebody suddenly looks distractingly attractive, across the room, which is fully that other person’s fault, not mine. Or I don’t get what we’re discussing and the pain of not understanding is so excruciating I just have to take a break from paying attention.

6. It feels awesome when you notice something special about me. When you value a skill or interest of mine, you give me a route in to subjects I didn’t think I’d like—and make me feel like I have something worth sharing.

7. What you tell me about myself matters way more than I hope you know. When you tell me I am something—smart, brave, kind, stupid, a trouble-maker, creative, a writer, a mathematician, funny, hard-working—I believe you.

8. I like it when you’re sarcastic but not when you’re harsh. When you say something ironically and I get it, I feel smart and mature. But when you’re mocking in a sharper way, it feels mean and a little scary.

9. Respect me. There are lots of things I already know about myself. Some I want to talk about, A LOT, and it means so much to me when you find time to include me (and it) in class. But lots of other things about me, I’m not ready to discuss, and especially not in class.

10. If you call on me and I am flat-out wrong, please don’t humiliate me. I’m already praying for a hole to open up in the floor and swallow me. It’s hard for me to believe that not knowing isn’t shameful but is instead a good starting point for learning. Help me.

And one bonus extra thing: You are suddenly one of the most important adults in my whole world. How you respond to me affects everything. Please be tough. Please be gentle. Especially when I am neither.


  One thought on “Things Middle School Students Wish We Knew –

  1. Tamara
    January 30, 2015 at 9:14 am

    To Mrs Joyce
    I really like the video when the men was dancing with the other classes and I loved the ending part because the whole school started to dance with the man and I think it was Fantastic and awesome and Fabulous and Wonderful because of their dance moves were great with the music in the video.
    From: Tamara your best and greatest Friend in your grade Mrs Joyce and I’ll never ever forget you in my life Mrs Joyce and I’ll be a really nice friend to the two new girls that are in 3\4J and they are very good girls Mrs Joyce.

  2. Tamara
    January 31, 2015 at 7:18 am

    To Mrs Joyce
    My dad just gave me one of the circle thingy’s with rice and corn together in it and they are so, so, so yummy and I think that you Mrs Joyce. From Tamara Lee Anne Ades.

  3. Tamara
    February 2, 2015 at 5:37 am

    TO Mrs Joyce
    I Had Fun at The Outdoor Swimming Pool Because The Kickboard Event Was Hard But at The Blocks I Got Told To Swim Back To The Start And Hop Out Of The Pool But For The Event 19 I was Not Allowed To Do That Event But Atleast I Got To Do The Kickboard Event. From: Tamara

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